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title: "Private School: Find the Right Fit"
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# [Private School: Find the Right Fit](https://blog.stlukesct.org/private-school-find-the-right-fit)

 by [Jason Giffen](https://blog.stlukesct.org/author/jason-giffen-director-of-enrollment-management)

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Finding the right school for your family can seem like an overwhelming task, especially if you are considering private school for the first time.

You’re not alone.                                                    

St. Luke's Admissions team has met hundreds of parents who have been in your shoes. With that in mind, we've boiled down all the things you might consider into five essential areas:

 

### **5 Essentials for Choosing the Right School for Your Family**

 

**1) Mission:**  This should be visible and if it’s not, ask to see it. Really read it. It is the promise a school makes to families. It should be concise and clear—***and align with your values***. If it's a kitchen sink of buzz words, that's a sign the school does not have a strong mission (and won't be able to deliver).

****2) Goals for learning*****:*** Teachers should have goals in mind as they guide your children through their school years. These are thinking dispositions—such as curiosity and reflection— that students will benefit from throughout life. **Can the school’s academic leaders articulate those goals?****

****3) Innovation*****:*** Education is often criticized for lagging behind the business world in terms of leveraging technology and rethinking age-old teaching methods. **It’s important that even traditional schools prepare students for the world they will enter after graduation.** Ask your prospective schools for concrete examples of forward thinking.**

Learn more about how St. Luke's prepares students to thrive now and into the future. Read [St. Luke's Strategic Plan 2021: Prepared to Thrive](https://www.stlukesct.org/community/strategic-plan). 

 ****4) Campus Facilities*****:*** Space matters. It impacts how students feel, interact, and learn. When you enter a bright room, with a comfortable temperature, big windows with views of trees and grass, a large table with plenty of outlets and elbow room—now you’re ready to work. As you visit each campus, ask yourself: **Would I want to learn in this space?****

 ****5) Gut Reaction*****:*** ****When you visit a school, you will have a reaction. So many families describe “just knowing” they were in the right place. **Your family’s campus visit will be the most telling part of your research**. This visit has everything to do with instincts that should not be ignored.******

Trust us, the right school for your child is out there. You just need clarity about what’s most important to your family and time to explore schools to find the right match.

St. Luke's Admissions team would love to introduce you to our school and community. **We have [admission events, as well as virtual and private tours](https://info.stlukesct.org/admissions-center).**  I hope you can join us in one way or another very soon.

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*St. Luke's School Admissions Team: Mary Kate DeRienzo, Jason Giffen, Michael Rupp, and Blake Bueckman.*

 

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