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title: "St. Luke's School Blog | Gareth Fancher: Director of Emotional Intelligence"
description: Prior to his appointment as Director of Emotional Intelligence, Gareth served as  St. Luke's Head of Middle School for 24 years.  Gareth was also a teacher and St. Luke's School Psychologist. With a Masters in Clinical Psychology and an abiding interest in adolescent development and health, Gareth is known for his gentle but firm, calm yet commanding style of leadership. With over 37 years as an educator and mentor, Gareth is a skilled storyteller and avid lover of baseball.
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## Gareth Fancher: Director of Emotional Intelligence

Prior to his appointment as Director of Emotional Intelligence, Gareth served as St. Luke's Head of Middle School for 24 years. Gareth was also a teacher and St. Luke's School Psychologist. With a Masters in Clinical Psychology and an abiding interest in adolescent development and health, Gareth is known for his gentle but firm, calm yet commanding style of leadership. With over 37 years as an educator and mentor, Gareth is a skilled storyteller and avid lover of baseball.

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### [Teaching Emotional Intelligence](https://blog.stlukesct.org/emotionalintelligence)

In his groundbreaking book *[Emotional Intelligence](https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Than-ebook/dp/B000JMKVCG)**,* [Daniel Goleman](http://www.danielgoleman.info/) describes *a* key set of abilities and characteristics central...

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